Would you know what to tell me if I ask you why you have not succeeded yet in life? What is it preventing you today to be the best “you”, give the best of yourself, enjoy the most incredible abundance, deeper relationships and the most incredible feeling of happiness?
Let me tell you: You. Although you may not believe it, you are the one to blame for all the above still not happening right now in your life.
Several limiting beliefs and fears
True, life is never plain sailing, and obviously for everything that happens to us we can have two points of view: either it can be seen as something negative, that bothers us, it overwhelms us and crush us, making stronger our negative perception of reality and encouraging feelings like being a victim of the world, or, on the other hand, see it as something positive, an opportunity to learn a new thing, take a step forward, gain strength and skills to become better “beings”. It is always a matter of choice.
However, not everything in our current situation depends on our vision and conscious choice of every moment we live. Most of the obstacles to our immediate success are hiding in our subconscious mind, stored as limiting beliefs and fears, in a way that, without reaching the surface of our mind, going unnoticed, they are responsible for many of our current “failures”.
It is only by shedding light on them (conscious thought) that we can dissolve these beliefs and block their activity behind the cloak of the analytical mind to influence our reality.
The power of the subconscious mind to drive our lives is extremely overlooked, specially when we decide not to take conscious control of it. We usually give away our power to create our reality and simply react to the circumstances of each moment, trying to swim in the collectively created reality by the rest of the people around us, rather than consciously manifest our own independently. It is here, in the subconscious, where all these limiting beliefs and fears we’ve accumulated over the years by our experiences, reside and take control, blocking the full potential we have as a pure conscious beings.
Basically, what we have in our subconscious mind is what influences us the most without us realizing about it. All the experiences which are limiting our “power” are presumptions that we are not going to get what we want, that we can not do this or that because we are not ”good” enough, that we have no ability to reach that status, or that is it safer to remain as we are because we do not want to “shine” too much, may this bring unexpected change not “safe” or unknown to us.
All of these ideas haven’t come “from nowhere”, but are the result of years of conditioning by the environment in which we have lived and grown, which leads us to believe we have to do this and not that, we can be this and but not that, etc.. These ideas are also the result of the amount of junk that we absorb each day through television and other media: if something is going wrong, we’re going to get worse, is there is wealth to reach, only a few can reach it, if you want a decent living, you have to sweat to earn something good enough to have it, and so on.
Clearly all these messages take their place and get recorded until the very last detail in the subconscious mind, creating images and behaviors that take “for granted” that we have a limit, that we can not go further, and thus, our mind behaves as if that was the reality it must attract to us. And because the mind is the greatest servant we have, this is what it attracts and presents right in front of your noses every single day.
Economy and success
Typically, two of the most important factors blocked at some level for everyone relate to money and personal success, because they are most visible at social level and because they are the ones we have obtained and received more conditioning about.
For example, consider the following: what is the economic level which you feel as comfortable? How much money in your bank account you need to reach to start feeling nervous if you see it lowering? 5000 euros? 15000? There are people that feel worried if they have less than 50,000 euros in the bank, and others that only when they are under a thousand euros do begin to think about it.
What is the maximum level you have ever been able to reach and with which you feel comfortable? Some feel as perfectly normal to have a payroll of 6,000 euros per month and does not create in them any wow! feeling. For others, receive 600 is already quite an achievement.
And who defines those limits? No one but you. Boundaries are completely arbitrary. You are the one who decides to feel uncomfortable or nervous when you have less of X euros in the bank, and you are the one who freaks out when you think of a payroll of 6,000 euros, rather than seeing it as perfectly normal and feasible. Are you conditioning your thoughts on what is “normal” and what is “wow!” so this is what defines your outer reality?. Yes you are. And the problem is that those conditions are not in your analytical mind, so it is not a thought that can be changed overnight. They are a bunch of good limiting beliefs embedded in your subconscious mind.
And the fear of success? Basically the same. Who decides how you would react and feel if everything you’d do was a tremendous success, if every project you launched, every idea you had, was so good to see yourself immediately catapulted to the next level in your life? The question is always the same. It is our subconscious mind who slows us down, who gives us these limitations because of the social conditioning we have had all our lives, the fear and panic to show off, to be so good that we are overwhelmed by a feeling of wellness and personal success. What will my environment do, think and how will they react? Better not to touch too many things, it is safer to stay on the comfort zone and keep things as they are now, right?
Eliminate limiting beliefs
It’s pretty hard to break and remove a constraint from many years (even from past lives), but not impossible. However, it must be clear that we can do so. I personally know of two more or less effective ways to do it. The first one is to bring to the conscious mind all these fears and limiting beliefs. Very thoroughly examine your own beliefs about what you can do and can not, how much you can charge for your work, your services or the value you generate from your activities, what do you want to achieve in your profession or in your personal life. The fetching of those beliefs from the subconscious and the exposure to the analytical mind has the effect of becoming “aware” of those barriers suddenly, and throwing the “light of consciousness” over them can dissolve them gradually. Not a one day job, but very effective.
The second method directly goes where your fears and limiting beliefs are stored: the subconscious. It can be done in several ways, such as meditating and visualizing literally how you burn and break those barriers, or listening to new messages while you sleep at night where you tell yourself that you live a full and abundant life, repeating the same message over and again, etc..
The goal is that our subconscious changes an old belief by a new one, the one we want, and thereafter begin to work with this new model and paradigm. If you want to see in your reality that your income is double of what you have now, that your work is three times better, that every project you go after becomes a success, etc, you just have to tell it to the subconscious. Just put in there that there are no limits to what we want to be, to live and enjoy, and gradually that will be the reality that will appears in front of your eyes.
Question of deciding
Being who you want to be is a matter of personal decision. The external circumstances can influence and push us from one side to another, but if you know that you can break your barriers and live the life you want, when the winds blow against you, you will only have to hold on a little harder and hope that the storm calms quickly, but will not have to change direction to avoid it. Your happiness, wealth and success depends on your ability make the decision to achieve them, and then, of course, put yourself to work for it. If there are no blockages, beliefs and fears in your mind to block you, I guarantee you will get there much sooner than you expect, and much more easily.
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